“Does He Still Love Me” Tarot Reading

🕯️ A Message from Hekate: The Crossroads is a Portal

Hekate, goddess of the crossroads, knows exactly where you are. She watches as you stand at the threshold between memory and clarity, between fantasy and truth. And her wisdom is this: when you ask if someone still loves you, first ask if you are still loving yourself inside that relationship.

The truth is, sometimes we hold onto connections that no longer hold us. Sometimes we stay because the familiarity feels safer than the unknown. Sometimes we confuse attachment with fate. But Hekate doesn’t ask you to stop caring—she simply asks you to choose the road that leads to your power. Her message is not cold or cruel. It is fierce, clear, and full of love:

Is this still true for you? Or are you clinging to something that is already slipping away? Do they still love you… sure, but do they HONOR you? Do they treat you as sacred? Are they the choice of lover most fitting for your highest, divine self? That’s another question entirely, and Hekate says that is the question you should be asking.

✨ Affirmations for Reconnection and Release

• I am no longer available for love that makes me question my worth.

• I deserve a relationship that meets me with clarity, not confusion.

• I release the need to be chosen by anyone but myself.

• I am whole, beautiful, and magnetic exactly as I am.

• I do not wait for love—I become it.

Final Reflection: What Are You Really Asking?

When you ask, “Does he still love me?” pause and breathe. Then ask: Do I feel loved when I think of him? Do I feel held, honored, and expanded by this connection? Or do I feel like I’m always reaching, always doubting, always hoping for something that never quite arrives?

This is not a punishment. It’s an invitation. You are being asked to come home—not to him, but to you. You are the one who gets to decide what happens next. You are the one who gets to write the next chapter. You are the one the cards are waiting for.

So light the candle. Pull the spread. Say the words. And remember: whether or not he still loves you, you are still here. Still sacred. Still sovereign. And you are never, ever alone.

If you’ve found yourself here, you’re likely asking a question that’s been sitting heavy in your chest: Does he still love me? Maybe it’s been days or weeks of uncertainty. Maybe he pulled away slowly, or left without explanation. Maybe you’re still technically together, but something in the energy has shifted. Or maybe the love ended a long time ago, and you’re still reaching into the past, hoping to feel some part of it reach back.

Let’s begin by honoring your question. You are not wrong for asking it. You are not weak for wanting to know. Longing is sacred. Wanting love is human. But what if this question isn’t actually about him? What if it’s a doorway into something much deeper, something the cards—and your own intuition—are gently trying to show you?

This isn’t a blog where you’ll find a quick “yes” or “no” answer. This is a space to come back to yourself. To listen. To remember. To begin the real reading—the one that brings you home to your own heart.

🌹 A Message from Aphrodite: Come Back to Beauty, Come Back to You

Aphrodite reminds you that you are not meant to beg for crumbs of affection. You are meant to be adored—not in desperation, but in devotion. Her presence invites you to soften back into your body, your radiance, your sovereignty. You don’t need someone else to validate your worth. You don’t need to keep checking their page, reading old texts, or searching for a sign that they still care. You are the sign. You are the altar. You are the magic.

When love becomes a question that erodes your self-worth, it’s time to return to the source. And the source is always you. Aphrodite doesn’t teach love as performance. She teaches love as a reclamation. Her medicine is this: Even if they do not choose you, you are still worth choosing. Choose yourself now, and let everything else align from there.

💗 A Self-Love Spell for the Tender-Hearted

You’ll need a pink candle, a small mirror, a few drops of rosewater or essential oil, and a piece of paper and pen. Begin by cleansing your space and lighting the candle. Hold the mirror and gaze into it—not to analyze your reflection, but to truly see yourself. Place a hand on your heart and say aloud: “Even if he doesn’t love me, I will not stop loving myself. I call my energy home. I choose me now.”

Write down a vision of your future self—one who no longer waits, wonders, or withers in uncertainty. Who is she? What does she know? How does she move through the world? Fold the paper, anoint it with rosewater, and place it beneath the candle. Let it burn safely while you sit in quiet devotion to your own becoming.

REPEAT AFTER ME: REGARDLESS OF IF HE LOVES ME, I LOVE MYSELF UNCONDITIONALLY!!!